Survivor 16 Micronesia: “NO” Is a Word Gloria Query Hates And That Is Why She Should Have her Chance To Get On Survivor!!
Tuesday, February 26th, 2008 By Gloria Query “Glo” gloriasroom@aol.com February 26, 2008
“No” is a word I have hated all my life. It is a word that is so final and ending. It’s like a stop sign meaning go no further. Negative words have always been something that aren’t in the framework of my being.
Growing up as a child I was very well behaved so the word “NO” never had to be said to me to often. In grade school I was the quiet one who just sat there and took in everything around me. On the playground I was never a bully and little ole me took up for the underdog in class. I would walk home with the poor kids no one liked and I would invite them to birthday parties and bowling parties at the bowling alley that my dad was a manger of for many years. My dad was older than most fathers. When I was 8 years old my father was already 60 years old. Most kids thought my dad was my grandfather. Having a much older father than most taught me a great deal about life at a very young age. I remember dad working 2 jobs to keep the household running. The way I was raised by my dad is a good reason I have never like the word “NO” as long as I can almost remember. Dad was born in 1900 and he lived through wars and depression and raised 5 children from a prior marriage on his own. His first wife died of cancer so he had to provide a good Christian home for these 5 children.
Later in dad’s life he married my mother who gave him a daughter, named Gloria. I was the only child in that marriage for 14 years. I was daddy’s little girl and we took the world by storm. We both loved God dearly and talked about Him everyday in converstation. Dad lived in a time when things were tough so he was like me. He did not believe in the word “NO.” Dad didn’t let anyone stop him from accompishing things he set out to do in life. He never accepted the word “NO” but to be honest he didn’t do much in life where “NO” had to be said to my dad because he was such a wonderful, loving, God fearing man. He did everything he could and never gave up. He took care of his first and second family with love, compassion and devotion of heart. He said when you love God and do right you won’t have to hear the word “NO to often.
So that is a short beginning of my life and how the word hardly ever entered into my vocabulary. It was said so seldom that I can’t remember it. I was loved and trusted and was open to explore the world around me as long as I loved God and behaved.
When I entered Junior High I knew I loved all sports, softball, even baseball with the boys, basketball, volley ball, soccer hockey and tennis. I even ran track after school. But I was always the second smallest girl in my class. Being small use to turn off my team mates, because I was so little they didn’t think I would be good at any sport. I remember my first Gym teacher telling me “NO” I couldn’t play 3rd base. Well, we had a substitute teacher for 2 weeks and she let me try 3rd base. When the regular teacher came back she was amazed. Playing third base became my position in High School, College, recreational softball, and travelling teams throughout the country. 3rd base was created for little ole me and I never heard the word “NO” from any gym teacher through the rest of my school days when they saw me play it. I didn’t hear “NO” to any sports, or to becoming a cop, or becoming a bounty hunter, or becoming a car repo-lady or becoming a go-go dancer. “No” was never said because I had such drive that people never used it much around a person like me.
I used to be on the special education committee for the city of Chesapeake schools. One day we had a big meeting with parents and their special needs children, one which I have myself. These children were never allowed the word “NO” in their classroom if it was related to task they were trying to overcome. You could say maybe better tomorrow or we’ll try later but never to say “NO” you can’t do it. “NO” is to final for these children and it is to final for me. It deadens the drive of energy within.
In June of 2006 Lynne Spillman said “NO” you didn’t make the cut for Survivor Gloria. She hadn’t promised me anything but she definitely said the wrong word when it comes to a person like me. All the word “NO” does to a person like me is make me more driven and determined. A few months ago Lynne used the word “NO” to me again saying i would never be on survivor. (I wrote an article about that a few days ago. Make sure to read it!)
Lynne Spillman is the casting director of Survivor and if she could ever tell the world one thing she would have to say that Gloria Query is not a person who gives up when she is told “NO.” “NO” makes her mad and more driven and determined than ever. As a matter of fact I have probably angered Lynne and Mark Burnett with my persistence and drive. Well, I can’t help it I just hate the word “NO.” I like to prove myself when ever I hear a negative word. I like to better the situation or cause and effect.
I have become known online with my writing. WHY? because Lynne Splliman told me “NO.” My driven personality stood out at casting calls and online with my writings because I poured out my thoughts, ideas and beliefs of what I want. I kept trying no matter how negative they seemed, I became positive with thoughts to never give up. They know my name at Survivor. because someone told me “NO.”
So, I have held my head high in adversity of the negative word “NO.” I have proven that I hate the word “NO” and have done everything I can to make positives out of negatives when given to me by Lynne Spillman. For that reason alone I should have my chance at getting an interview for Survivor. I walked with the negative word thrown at me, but walked strong and steadfast with positive devotion and loyalty to the show.
If for no other reason on the face of the earth as it was said to me I deserve my Interview and shot for Survivor because I stuck to my guns and never gave up when I was told the word “NO.” I should be the first contestant to ever be on the show because I publicly stand up and write that I deserve my shot and chance to get on survivor because I didn’t lay down and die or give up when I was told “no” by Lynne Spillman casting director of Survivor.
The word “NO” made me blossom and grow and become a writer of humor and desire for the big dream. I gained my position in reality World by being who and what I am with my drive. Why” again because I was told the word “NO.” I hate the word “NO.” So when can a person like me get a yes or maybe out of Lynne Spillman and survivor. Why would they want to shoot down the spirit and drive of a person like me. Dreamers are people who make the world come to life. Their spirit, heart and grit are unstoppable in the storm of life.
So, I deserve my chance to get on Survivor because I did not let the word “NO” from Lynne Spillman stop me. I feel I have proven this point more than any other person on the face of the earth who has ever had a dream to be on Survivor. Lynne you told me there wasn’t one person on the whole face of the earth that wanted to be on Survivor more than me. You said it was a sad thing. You actually said it was a real shame. The real shame is not giving me the chance to prove just exactly how much drive I have gained because I was once told “NO” by you.
Will you casting people ever go out on a limb and give me my chance. You go out and find complete strangers on the streets who have never seen Survivor and cast them. I am a person who has worked hard because of the word “NO.” Can’t I be the first person to ever be able to say I was blessed to be on Survivor because I would’nt let “NO” stop me from trying out for show no matter what barriers I had.
I rest my case and I am absolutley sick of the word “NO” out of you Survivor people LOL!!
Gloria looking bad and tough!! Remember my motto, “Humor is Healer of all Sorrows.”
